Don’t always think the right relationship will come in the traditional way.

Don’t always think the right relationship will come in the traditional way.

He approaches you, goes out on a date with you, court you for many years before proposing or seeing your people.

Sometimes, It doesn’t have to be that way, it could happen in many other ways, so don’t close the door when it’s not happening through the traditional way.

This is why you need God to always lead you to the right person.

There are no particular laid down rules to a purposeful relationship.

Jacob spent many years working for Leban his father-in-law in other to marry Rachel.

Isaac, on the other hand, didn’t spend months or years, the Bible recorded it this way.

When Isaac’s father (Abraham) sent his servant to go get a wife for his son (Isaac) it didn’t take him forever to do that, and when Isaac saw Rabekha, the Bible said he loved her.

Isaac didn’t court Rebekha for many years, he just saw her once and he loved her.

Sometimes it may happen that way, the right relationship sometimes doesn’t have to take many years.

So, don’t think he’s a player because he proposed to marry you after knowing you for a month, don’t think he’s fake because he’s talking of marriage after going out on one date with you.

” And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent and took Rebekah, and she became his wife, and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.”
(Genesis 24: 67).

These are two men, one worked for many years before he got married to the woman he loved, the other didn’t, but the button line is the fact that they both loved their wives.

Don’t think someone needs to spend many years before he/she can have the right intentions towards you, someone can have the right intentions just meeting you.

When you meet the right person, he/she wouldn’t give you any reason to be confused.

The most important thing is marrying someone from zion, whose heart is focused on God.

Credit; Jolomi Emmanuel