‘If you love her and she only sees you to be a friend without any emotional attachment, don’t stop’- Jolomi Emmanuel

I met a guy who told me that when God showed him his future wife, she wasn’t even looking at his direction, she was for obvious reasons not keen on dating this guy but he was convinced that she was his wife.

All he did was to sow the right seeds and watch them grow.

He sowed friendship and watched it grew, he sowed communication and watched it grew, he sowed honesty and watch it grew, he sowed care and watched it grew until she catches up and her love for him exploded.

Most times, we are too quick in expecting someone to love us the way we love them, at the initial stage of most relationships, there is going to be imbalances.

Sometimes, you may love someone and that person only sees you to be a friend without any emotional attachment so you’re friend-zoned.

Sometimes, God may even have spoken to you concerning someone, maybe showed you that such person is going to be your partner, but that person doesn’t even seem to be on the same page as you, you are convinced but that person hasn’t seen what you’ve seen.

You don’t expect such a person to develop instant love and affection towards you, you may love the person 100% but the person only sees you as a friend.

The thing is this, learn to plant a seed and water the seed until it grows, plant friendship and watch it grow, plant communication and let it grow, plant honesty and watch it grow, if truly that person is meant for you as you have seen, that person will catch up and get on the same page just like you.

Never beg to be loved but it’s ok to fight for who you love when God is leading you to that person, be convinced and just water your seed and watch the seed grow.

Credit::Jolomi Emmanuel