Never pretend to be who you’re not before your partner, be real, you’re marrying me so you must know the real me, no pretence.

Never pretend to be who you’re not before your partner, be real, you’re marrying me so you must know the real me, no pretence.

Some of you will be pretending and forming while in a relationship, someone you will be spending your entire life with, you will be forming for that person, some of you cannot even speak “pidgin” English, you cannot even fart in the presence of your boo.

You enter cab with your bae because of shame you tell the cab man to keep the change, who are you forming for? bros take your change, if he doesn’t have change, tell him you will help him look for change, be real.

He accompanied you to the market, you’re pricing as if that’s how you normally price if he’s not there, you that used to shout “madam na 200 I go pay” just because he’s around you’re forming.

Be real, as a man never pretend to be who you’re not before a woman, let her know your financial status, let her know your living condition, don’t start what you cannot finish.

Be naked (open) before your partner, be real, you’re marrying me so you must know the real me, no pretence.

Credit: Jolomi Emmanuel