People quit their relationships for lack of compatibility because they have refused to adjust and compromise.

Before you quit your relationship for lack of compatibility, you may have to read this write-up.

Most times, people think they’re not compatible, but the truth is this, they have refused to adjust and compromise.

What we call incompatibility is often lack of adjustment from the partners.

For instance, you’re the sociable and outing type of girl but your man is a churchy kind of guy who doesn’t like going out and he isn’t that sociable.

You feel you guys aren’t compatible, no! you haven’t taken your time to adjust, you can adjust and make the sacrifice and try to reduce your outings to accommodate his non- sociable lifestyle.

If your man is that kind of guy that loves dressing in co-operate wears and you are used to wearing jeans, sneakers, timberland and crop top, you see! there’s a place for adjustment to accommodate your differences, you can decide to change your wardrobe a bit or he may need to change his wardrobe a bit in order to strike a balance, I have seen a pastor’s wife who had to change her wardrobe just to accommodate her husband’s office, my friend who doesn’t like wearing jeans had to buy some and sneakers when he met his wife. Love is sacrifice, there’s a place for adjustment.

There are exceptions to this though, for instance, if you’re not compatible vision-wise such union may never work if you’re not compatible in terms of morals, character, spiritually and other crucial aspects, such union may never work.

This generation is so quick to give up, we hate to sacrifice, we hate to adjust, we hate to compromise.

Stay blessed.

Credit; Jolomiemmanuel