‘Society has made most women highly desperate for marriage’ – Joro Olumofin

Joro Olumofin, a popular Nigerian social media relationship expert has shared his opinion on the high desperation among most women and what the cause is.

Thus desperation women have is towards marriage. Most women cannot stand the pain of seeing their age mates move from Miss to Mrs thus burn with a strong desire to see themselves in similar situations

Sadly, most of these women do not take their happiness into consideration when they are on the lookout for a potential suitor.

Consequently, they end up marrying the wrong persons which make the marriage a bad one on arrival. Women believe marriage is an achievement that must be attained at all costs.

He wrote:

“The title Mrs has done more harm than good to women. A lot of women are suffering and going through emotional pain just to hold on to that title “ Mrs”. It’s psychological.

“The term “Mrs” makes a lot a lot of women feel accomplished. A man has always been “MR” all his life. Even from when he was a 13year old boy, A man has been called ” MR”. A lady who has been Miss most of her life goes through the following:

“(1) While she was ” Miss” her friends who became “Mrs” cut her off.

“(2) Society neglects and mocks her because she’s a miss. When she finally becomes a “Mrs” her “id” (Instinctive Impulses) does anything to protect that title “Mrs” even if it means :

“(1) Accommodating Infidelity

“(2) Physical Abuse

“(3)Emotional Abuse… If a marriage doesn’t work society sees it as her fault that she couldn’t keep a home. The value of a single father is more than a single mother in the eyes of society. Ladies please change the narrative and enjoy your life. 90% of Nigerian women would rather be “Mrs” and depressed than Miss and happy. Don’t let “Mrs” define your happiness.””

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