Stop using your degree, age, title to intimidate your partner

Let me just teach on this, so many people are in this mess, they are not free with their partners because of his/her title, degree or age.

Stop using your degree, age, title to intimidate your partner, why marry someone who thinks his/her degree, title or age is more important than the relationship?.

Some men will always remind you of their age “don’t you know i’m 7 years older than you?” some will remind you of their degree “i’m a doctor,you should respect me” some will intimidate you with their titles “dont you know i’m a pastor, i’m a bishop”

I don’t care about your degree, title or age, the moment we agree to be together, we are one, you shouldn’t intimidate me with it.

Sometimes I wonder why people carry their title, degree and age into a relationship.

Even if I’m ordained as a bishop tomorrow, my wife will still be calling me “big head” at home, she will still touch my big head and play with me anyhow she wants, I may be a bishop in the church but I’m a husband at home, I may preach with so much anointing and get people falling under the anointing, but when I get home, I’m not that man on the pulpit, I’m a husband.

Every other person may be calling me SIR outside but my bae is free to call me “big head”

Nobody has the right to call me “big head” except my woman, no one can touch my head and play with my nose except my woman.

I can be strict with every other person but to her it is not same, with her I can laugh and joke and play excessively, there’s a funny and playful part of me you can never see but she has seen it.

Credit: Jolomi Emmanue