Your wife is your lifetime project, she is a mirror through which people will see you.
It is wrong to have money and there’s no evidence or reflection of that money on your wife, she looks unkempt, tattered, suffering without any proper care, you fail to realise that your wife is your reflection. Your wife is a mirror through which people will see you, if your wife is always sad and…
It is wrong to have money and there’s no evidence or reflection of that money on your wife, she looks unkempt, tattered, suffering without any proper care, you fail to realise that your wife is your reflection.
Your wife is a mirror through which people will see you, if your wife is always sad and looking unkempt, she becomes a mirror and a reflection of you as the husband, it’s a reflection suggesting that you’re failing.
You feel so ashamed of introducing her to your colleagues at work, you are ashamed of taking her to various functions and meetings, the truth is, the reason you feel ashamed is because your partner is your reflection, a hungry-looking and tattered wife suggests the husband is failing, she’s a reflection of your duty.
Your wife is your lifetime project, you don’t graduate from that calling, it is a calling, an assignment, she was put under your care, to nurture, love, lead and protect, she’s your duty, your work, your project you don’t graduate from , there’s no break, it’s a lifetime commitment.
If her English is bad, encourage her to attend adult school, go to the supermarket, shop for sexy underwear, nightgowns, nice clothes so she can seduce you anytime and you can be proud of her.
This doesn’t in any way encourages women to be lazily sitting around waiting for a man to come to upgrade them, as a woman you must also work and improve yourself, develop yourself, be the best version of yourself, this will make his lifetime calling easier.
I hope this helps.
I agree totally to this and it’s a fact
Nope, it’s not fact, it’s your opinion.
I agree
hey women are people not objects or ‘projects’? we’re all self-sufficient adults and the only ‘lifetime project’ out there is our own lives
Are you married?
I absolutely love this and I do totally agree to it big up to the presentee team ????
Thiss!!!
It’s psychological kind of gesture to make yourself seen and feel this and that. You know what I mean.
hey women are people not objects or ‘projects’? we’re all self-sufficient adults and the only ‘lifetime project’ out there is our own lives
My wife sent me this. I pay all of the bills while she is in school full time I work three jobs to support her and our three children. When where and how am I supposed make her look and feel like a Barbie doll on top of all of that? One word, ungrateful.
She just shared it’s not being ungrateful. Cheer up
Maybe there is something lacking within the intimacy of your relationship. We tend to get busy with day to day life tasks and forget
To nourish our relationships. Maybe she misses one on one time. I’m sure she is very grateful but clearly she is trying to communicate with you
This is sexist. It’s 2020, women make their own money now.
Please delete this asinine article.
?????? I agree! It is a dated opinion and very unhelpful.
I Love this article. Thank You So Much,I Hope it educates The Next Person as well!
Great stuff!
It is true
U just made my day
When considering this from a Christian perspective (those who actually live by the word of God and not just the title of Christian), I believe it’s spot on.
So are you a Christian or do you believe the word of god ? Which one is it
I TOTALLY AGREE , AND LOVE THIS MY HUSBAND AND I LIVE THIS WAY I AM A CHRISTIAN FAITH WOMAN ,AND VERY SUBMISSIVE TO M HUSBAND .,THAT SUBBMISSIVENESS IS TO THE GOD IN HIM ,I I’M A LIFE COUNSELOR .,AND GIVE THIS ADVISE TO MANY YOUNG LADIES..GOD SPEED TO YOU.
Good grief, NO. If you follow Scripture, has your husband given his life for you lately? Submission is to be mutual. Please…encourage the “young ladies” that their identity is found in CHRIST, not in any earthly man. They are EQUALS with men, they may or may not choose (on their own) to date, to marry, to bear children – any or all of those, or NONE. They are ENOUGH in their own right.
Marquetta, please stop advising young women of this, it is unhelpful. As a life counsellor i would have thought giving advice would not be encouraged. I think you have taken submissiveness way out of context here.
Yikes…
I have mix feelings about this
Me too!! I understand and I agree but I’m also offended? Maybe because a man wrote it or maybe the tone of the article? I’m a strong independent woman but I do believe that how you look or carry yourself is a reflection of what your marriage may entail.
NO. Women are not projects. They are EQUALS in God’s sight and they don’t need men…they might choose one (to marry, have children with, etc.), but they’re perfectly fine without them.
For one that might “submit to the god” in their husband…if you both are following Scripture, has he given his life for you lately? Submission is to be mutual.
Let’s encourage the next generation to move beyond this nonsense. Women have been controlled “projects” for way too long!
NO. Women are not projects. They are EQUALS in God’s sight and they don’t need men…they might choose one (to marry, have children with, etc.), but they’re perfectly fine without them.
For one that might “submit to the god” in their husband…if you both are following Scripture, has he given his life for you lately? Submission is to be mutual.
Let’s encourage the next generation to move beyond this nonsense. Women have been controlled “projects” for way too long!
Yes i support it cor ur wife show how if the marriage is smooth or rough for the viewers
This is so ridiculous. Nobody is somebody’s project. Husband and wife build each other up,, be helpers of one another. Maybe he needs to work on himself.
I totally agree with what you have said. I was sometimes talked about because I didn’t look as well as my spouse when he would go out to different functions. But later I got a better job and started to dress better than I used to. But I often wonder how a man can always seem to go to the store to by what he desires to have but most of the time it’s just about him and no one else in his family. My childhood was similar, my dad was worse.
Nope, I do not agree with this at all. I am nobody’s project and find the concept insulting. This would be more applicable to one’s child/children and even then they are not projects either. This completely takes away from a wife being her own person which I find ridiculous, he is her husband, not parent.
“Let’s be independent but not be independent” is the final message.
How a woman looks, acts, behaves is THEIR OWN RESPONSIBILITY. Not their man’s. Their own. Just like the man’s responsibility to do that for himself. It is in NO way a reflection of him if the woman walks around in tattered clothing etc. Same vice versa. This screams dependency/codependency.
You can make eachother feel loved. But each has to take care of themselves, individually, and not be dependent on another to do it.
I give this article less than a star out of five.
Speaking as a wife of 20 years, there were years I was unkempt and broken and he could and did not pull me out. Instead he withdrew his physical affection and told me he wasnt attracted right now. That withdrawal lasted 3 1/2 years. Now that I no longer am willing to wait on his reciprocation he is saying give him more time. But now I’m done and am planning on walking away to build me back up and feel the way God wants me to feel about me. And by the way I loss the 20 pounds and am dressing again. Feeling new and light now that I have decided to leave and wait no more. With the shoe on the other foot he is grasping at straws to ask for the time to reclaim my heart but at last it is to late and long over due. I say farewell remember the great times and heal because I have to be all that God wants me to be. No bitterness just relief and peace. Woman and men hope this helps someone. Never lose yourself at the cost of protecting the others feelings, wants and desires. You too deserve to have it reciprocated to you. In marriage your body is not your own for either of you. You should be loved and needs met physically, emotionally, spiritually daily through it all. My book will be following in December 2020. “Blended” The truth of how TPIE should have killed me but I survived. Written by GCM
Kinda funny me…lol
What in the everloving hell is this tripe? Get off your high horse of entitlement and work together on a relationship, no wonder the divorce rate is higher than 50%. Shit. Like. This.
Well. I do believe my appearance and bags under my eyes may suggest I could use time for more self care. Maybe my husband is wrapped up and not stopping to put some time into the marriage. I’m not doing much either. The kids take all my energy. That being said, I would like him to notice and set up a baby sitter on his own, plan me a spa day?
Encouraging me to go buy sexy underwear?! You lost me there. Feeling sexy comes from being noticed and nurtured, communication, maybe even more than 4-5 hours of sleep. I want a husband, not a P-I-M-P.