Advising one who does not pray
Question I’ve a friend who likes to pray five times a day, and he likes to advise others to pray. He’ll listen to whatever I talk about Islam. Whenever I approach him he’ll listen to me and I tell him, why can’t you pray? He told me he will, and I have heard this for…
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listen to whatever I talk about Islam. Whenever I approach him he’ll listen to me and I tell
him, why can’t you pray? He told me he will, and I have heard this for the past ten to twenty
years. One day I call him to pray and he gives excuses. I think that during prayer time his
mind goes somewhere else; after that he thinks “why can’t I pray?”. I am very tired of telling
him. I need advice.
Praise be to Allah.
If your friend is mentally sound, then all you have mentioned about him indicates his disrespect of
prayers. If he means what he says, then he would perform his prayers. His claim that he likes prayers is
not truthful; if it were, then he would perform them accordingly. In fact, the following verse from the
Holy Qur’aan applies to such a recalcitrant and unobservant person (interpretation of the meaning):
“Then there has succeeded them a posterity who have neglected and lost the prayers, and followed
their lusts; thus, they will face devastation (on the Day of Judgment, i.e., he will face Hell).” Surat
Maryam 19:59.
By completely ceasing to perform prayers, a person is judged to be a kaafir, based on several ahaadeeth
of the Prophet
(peace be upon him), one of which is:
“The obligation and pact between us and them (the munaafiqeen, the hypocrites) is the prayer, so
whoever abandons it has indeed committed kufr (i.e., become a kaafir, a non-believer).” (Tirmidhi,
hadeeth #2621, and it is sahih) The meaning here is that the hypocrites are guaranteed their security and
immunity from being fought by the Muslims as long as they perform their prayers; if they abandon their
prayers, then they are among the kuffaar, and are subject to being fought and killed in the war against
them. The Prophet
further says, “What is between a person and committing shirk (associating partners
with Allaah) and kufr (disbelief) is abandoning the prayer.” (Sahih Muslim, #82)
