An example of the dangers of internet chat between the sexes
Question I have been using chat session for some time I am a married woman mother of two. During one session with a Male member, i got a little emotionally involved and even went to the extent of sending my photo thru email.I feel very guilty now and feel very ashamed of my behaviour.I also…
Question
Praise be to Allah.
Firstly, there is no doubt that such
conversations, if they lead to evil and to fitnah (temptation) – as
happened to you when you were infatuated with this man – are haraam
and are not permitted. Everything that leads to haraam is also haraam.
See the answer to Question # 6453.
Secondly: you have to repent to Allaah
and seek His forgiveness for doing this haraam thing. You have to regret
it and immediately stop engaging in chats with non-mahram men on these
channels. You have to ask Allaah to cover your faults in this world
and in the Hereafter. We advise you to use your time in things that
will benefit you in your religious and worldly affairs, such as learning
about your religion, taking care of your husband and looking after your
children. Undoubtedly these are things for which Allaah will reward
you. And you have to do a lot of righteous deeds, and get to know good
women so that you will have alternatives to harmful uses of your time
that bring no benefits. We ask Allaah to guide us all and give us all
strength.
