He cut off his relationship with his wife a while ago. Does he have to divorce her?
Question I am a man who is married to 2 wives, and I have children aged 20 and above from my first wife, but I married the second wife on the basis that I have no relationship with the first wife. Since I married the second one and before I married her, I had no…
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Praise be to Allah.
The wife has the right to
have her husband stay overnight with her, and she is entitled to kind
treatment and intimacy. She has the right to ask for divorce if her husband
fails to give her these rights. But if she agrees to stay and give up her
rights, then she may do that and you do not have to divorce her in that
case.
Muslim narrated (1463) from
‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that when Sawdah bint Zam’ah grew
old, she said: O Messenger of Allah, I have given my day with you to
‘Aishah. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon
him) used to give ‘Aishah two days: her day and Sawdah’s.
This indicates that it is
permissible for a woman to give up her right to a share of her husband’s
time, and to give her night to her co-wife.
But if the wife does not
accept this situation, and she also does not want divorce, then you have to
review your case and try to resolve the problem, give her her rights, treat
her kindly and show her some appreciation, because she is the mother of your
children and she has lived with you all this time.
We ask Allah to set all our
affairs straight.
And Allah knows best.