How long should burial of the deceased be delayed when waiting for his relatives?
Question Is it permissible to delay burying the deceased until some of his relatives come from other cities, at their request? Praise be to Allah. It is not permissible to delay (burial) except within the limits of what is needed to prepare him or to wait for his relatives or neighbours to come, if that…
Question
Praise be to Allah.
It is not permissible to delay (burial) except within the
limits of what is needed to prepare him or to wait for his relatives or
neighbours to come, if that will not take too long according to local
custom, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said: “Hasten to bury your dead….” This hadeeth was narrated by
Maalik and Ahmad, 2/240; and by al-Bukhaari, 2/87-88. It is not permitted
to hold a “wake” for him, or to set up pavilions (for mourners to gather),
i.e., so called mourning rituals. Those who could not attend the funeral
may pray over his grave, if he was in the city where he was, within a
period of two months, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) prayed over the grave of Umm Sa’d one month after her
burial.
