Ruling on one spouse washing the other when he or she has died
Question A man died, and his wife gave birth a few hours later. Is it permissible for her to wash his body? Praise be to Allah. We put this question to Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen, may Allaah preserve him, who answered: “No, because when she gave birth, the relationship between her and her husband…
Question
few hours later. Is it permissible for her to wash his body?
Praise be to Allah.
We put this question to Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih
al-‘Uthaymeen, may Allaah preserve him, who answered:
“No, because when she gave birth, the relationship between her and
her husband came to an end. It is not permissible for her to wash him because now she is
no longer his wife, and thus if she were to enter into a (new) marriage contact at this
time, it would be valid.”
When a woman’s husband dies, she should observe the ‘iddah
(waiting period or mourning period) of four months and ten days. If she is pregnant, her
‘iddah lasts until she gives birth. Once her ‘iddah is over or she has given
birth, there is no longer any connection between them. It is permissible for a wife to
wash her husband’s body, and vice versa, if this is still within the ‘iddah
period, because the connection between husband and wife does not end merely because of
death. The evidence for this from the Sunnah of the Prophet
(peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) is the hadeeth of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with
her), who said: “The Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)
came back from (the cemetery of) al-Baqee’ and found me suffering a headache, saying
‘Oh, my head!’ He said, ‘No, O ‘Aa’ishah, it is I who should be
saying, “Oh, my head!”’ Then he said, ‘What’s the matter? If you
die before me, I will take care of you: I will wash your body, wrap you in your shroud,
pray for you and bury you.’”
