7 reasons why men must stop seeing women as sex objects but as partners for mutual growth

Women are objectified for sex by most men across the length and breadth of the planet. While most men will base their objectification of women on their appearance, others are just mentally ingrained to see women as ‘good for sex only.’

It is natural for most men to be attracted to women based on what they see. A simple thing like the arm or shoulder of a woman can arouse the sexual urges of a man to a crescendo.

Women are naturally meant to entice and lure men with their fanciful clothes and jewelry and by the rolling of their eyes and twisting their faces to make seductive suggestions to men.

However, none of these actions or more is a perfect reason why any man must see a woman as an object created to satisfy his sexual libido.

Even in marriages, most men do marry simply because they want to have a legitimate reason to have sex and not for companionship that is geared towards the greater good of both parties.

Most men are selfish about the sexual satisfaction of their women. Most men lookout for their satisfaction first and leave the women to their fate.

The reason why infidelity is high is not that women want to cheat but it is simply because they are with men who think primarily about sex before anything else. And with the sexual act, they do not take the clue and happiness of the women into consideration.

For them, a woman is a pot that is meant for him to ejaculate or empty his sexual heaviness and burdens. Preposterous!

In today’s article, I want to serve you with 7 reasons (there may be more) why every man must start to view women differently and not to see them as sex objects:

1. Women are special beings that are meant to be loved: Every woman has been specially wired to have the affection, care, and attention of a man. In effect, most women are looking for a man who will show them genuine love and nothing else.

2. Sex is not a big deal to most women: To most women, their preoccupation in every relationship or marriage is how they can be relevant to their partner and help to make every situation better. Women crave for sex when they feel it is necessary. Therefore, every man must understand that women are not moving about searching for a man to climb the bed with.

3. They epitomize grace and beauty: Women are the true bearer of grace, beauty, and charm. There have been numerous women in the past and present who have been the fantasy of numerous men, poets, warriors, and the ruling class itself. The history is adorned with the folklores of the beauty of various women like Cleopatra, Nefertiti, Joan of Arc, Lady Godiva, Rani Samyukta, Rani Padmavati, Noorjahan and much more that truly describes the image of a beautiful woman. The present women who are making names as Miss Universe, Miss World, and other coveted titles are making waves around the world with their enchanting beauty.

4. Combination of intelligence and beauty: Women have not just got good looks but they also have an intelligent mind too. Right from the ancient intelligent women like Lady Gargi, Lopamudra and others, they are still making big names in various areas due to their impressive mind and wit. The board exam results at the national and state level in India and abroad are enough to prove that girls are surging ahead from boys. If you are still not satisfied, you can read out the likes of Kalpana Chawla, Sunita Williams, Vijay Lakshmi Pandit, Mary Warnock, Margaret Atwood, and a lot more that symbolizes true knowledge and wisdom.

5. Excellent Communicators: Women of today are not shy in speaking up their minds and are known as wonderful communicators, negotiators, and statesmen. Women can make a better deal and personal engagements with people due to their impressive personality and unmatched art of oratory. They can communicate in a much better way as compared to their male counterparts. This is the prime reason why numerous companies around the world have enrolled more women in their hiring and recruitment process.

6. Leadership Qualities: If you think that women are not much suave when it comes to the matters of decision making and leadership, you need to think again. There are plenty of women who have shown admirable leadership qualities at different positions. Angela Markel- Chancellor of Germany, Janet Yellen- Chairman of Federal Reserve, Helle Thorning-Schmidt- Prime Minister of Denmark, Indira Nooyi- CEO of Pepsico, Melinda Gates- Co-chairman of Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, Sheryl Sandberg- COO of Facebook, Chanda Kochhar- MD & CEO of ICICI Bank and others are some of the names that have established the superiority of women in terms of leadership.

7. Brilliant Financial Experts: It is not a hidden fact anymore that women are brilliant in terms of handling financial matters. We all have seen our mothers in managing and handling the expenses of the family in the most efficient manner. They are known to make the best deals with the smallest business persons like fruits and vegetable vendors, a cloth merchant, grocery store owner, and others in the fray. It is this wonderful quality that makes women an excellent homemaker.

As a man, these are the things that should guide and shape your view about women. It is about time women are seen as PARTNERS and not SEX OBJECTS. They deserve better.