‘I used to date to marry but I recently stopped doing that. I’m dating in hopes that it can lead to marriage’ – Lady reveals
A lady recognized as Shea Butta Baldie in a tweet has disclosed that she now dates hoping it ends up in marriage as against her initial perception that each dates she gets into must end up in marriage. She said due to disappointments, she had to do the right thing by dating with hope but…
A lady recognized as Shea Butta Baldie in a tweet has disclosed that she now dates hoping it ends up in marriage as against her initial perception that each dates she gets into must end up in marriage.
She said due to disappointments, she had to do the right thing by dating with hope but not with expectations.
When that doesn’t not manifest, she has got nothing to lose since she just hoped and never expected it ended up in marriage.
Read her series of tweets below;
“I used to date to marry but I recently stopped doing that. I’m dating to date in hopes that it can lead to marriage. I realized that I have to stop seeing my significant other as a husband because it saves a lot of disappointment. And I have to stop giving wife material so early
*This does not mean I’m lowering my standards. Standards are the same but level of influence my partner has over me has lessened. At least that’s what I’m trying to do.
Girl, I’m tired of being the girl that makes a man better but I’m never able to reap my rewards.,” – She wrote.
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